Engagement Ring Sizing and Resizing
The average finger size for women in France is between 50 and 54, but it is important to remember that finger size, meaning their circumference, can vary throughout a day, a season, and a lifetime.
Temperature, age, and weight all have an impact: when it's cold, the hand can be thinner, and conversely, fingers can swell when it's hot.
It is therefore important to be able to measure with the right tools, being aware of the conditions under which you are doing so, and to ensure that resizing will be possible before making your decision.
Now, let's discover the tool available to you: the ring sizer.
Printable Ring Sizer
If you own a ring that fits the finger on which you will wear your new ring, we invite you to download our printable ring sizer.
Please note that finger sizes vary from one finger to another and can differ between the left and right hand.
The ring sizer must be printed at actual size (= 100% scale).
Ring Sizer to Receive
If you do not have a ring for reference, we offer a reusable ring sizer that you can receive at home. To use it correctly, make sure to:
- take the measurement when the sizer is positioned on the finger
- ensure that a ring of the selected size can pass easily over your knuckle.
In any case, if the size isn't right, don't panic, as resizing is also a standard procedure for jewelers.
Standards that vary by country
Just like with shoes, standards vary by country. Below is a brief overview:

How to get the ring size without spoiling the surprise
You know you're going to propose, you've chosen the ring, all you need now is the "measurement." Given all these steps, we have no doubt that you have already shown tact and skill in getting answers to your questions without revealing yourself. A true James Bond! In this case, we have no doubt that you will be able to complete one last mission: use one of the online ring sizers to measure the desired size for the engagement ring at a moment you deem appropriate.
In a simpler scenario, you discuss the engagement ring as a couple and openly address the subject. We assure you, it's perfectly normal not to know your finger size, especially since it changes over time.
You are now wearing your ring and you're wondering if it's the right size
There are several ways to tell if a ring needs to be resized or not. First, it should be difficult to remove over the knuckle without feeling too tight. The ring should not spin excessively, otherwise, with the weight of the stones, it risks always pointing downwards.
Also, consider what time of year you feel discomfort or not. For example, if you feel tighter than usual during very hot periods like summer, it's important to assess how it feels in other seasons.
In any case, know that at Héloïse & Abélard, we can even make half-size adjustments.
Need to resize after your purchase?
Resizing is common in the world of jewelry and can be done by most jewelers. However, the operation involves cutting the piece of jewelry and then adding or removing the metal that makes up the ring, so it is preferable to have it done by the jeweler who made your ring and knows its subtleties.
At Héloïse & Abélard, no worries! Resizing by 2 metric sizes up or down is offered on all our rings within 30 days.
If you would like personalized advice, please send your request to serviceclient@heloise-abelard-joaillerie.fr.
